Resources for Loved Ones

I need to work on the formatting but I wanted to just get the information down - here are some websites, books, and groups that might be useful. It is only the tip of the iceberg but will get you started on your journey. Most of these resources are from an LDS perspective but even if you are not LDS you could find applicable principles and guidance.

WEBSITES
This is the official LDS Church website dedicated to helping individuals and families utilize the Atonement to overcome the sweeping effects of pornography. Resources for individuals, families, and leaders.
Offers resources for loved ones and female addicts. Offers an anonymous support forum for loved ones.
Provides hope, education, and resources related to pornography and sexual addiction recovery.
A list of blogs of addicts and of loved ones who are recovered or on the path to recovery.
Offers information about the emerging science behind pornography addiction, statistics, and the harm of pornography.
BOOKS
      He Restoreth My Soul by Donald L. Hilton
Relying on the latest research on addiction, and merging this knowledge with spiritual aspects of repentance and recovery, the author provides understanding and hope to those who seek healing and restoration of both body and spirit, which are the "soul of man."
      Understanding Pornography and Sexual Addiction: A Resource for LDS Parents and Leaders
This manual contains reliable information about pornography and sexual addiction, including answers to frequently asked questions about what is necessary to support recovery for those addicted- and their afflicted loved ones.
·         What Can I Do About Me? by Rhyll Croshaw
Written by the spouse of a pornography addict, the book shines light on the darkness of pornography and sexual addiction, the trauma felt by loved ones, and the hope that recovery and peace are possible.
·         From Heartache to Healing by Colleen C. and Phillip A. Harrison
Shares the principles and insights that helped this couple find the Savior's grace and guidance to face and survive the heartache of sexual addiction. Colleen shares inspiring wisdom from a wife's perspective; Phil's shares his testimony as a man who has been clean from sexual addiction for over ten years.
      Healing Through Christ 12-Step Manual for Loved Ones
http://www.healingthroughchrist.org/ has created a comprehensive 12-step book based on LDS principles for family members affected by a loved one’s addiciton. It is available for free on their website.
      Sitting in a Rowboat Throwing Marbles at A Battleship by Andrew Pippanne
Written by a pornography addict in complete recovery, this author shares his LDS perspective to help others understand and overcome their own pornography addiction. The book is available for download for free from his website: http://rowboatandmarbles.org/

SUPPORT GROUPS, COUNSELORS AND THERAPISTS, AND TREATMENT PROGRAMS
      LDS PASG Group (addictionrecovery.lds.org)
Offers both in-person and telephone 12 Step Meetings specific to Pornography Addiction for both addicts and loved ones. Local groups are for men only addicts and separate classes for loved ones (women only). Women addicts can access phone meetings
      Local Meetings:
      You can search by zipcode for meetings your area
      Phone Meetings for Women Addicts:
      Thursdays 7:00pm local time, call 1-855-537-4000 and use access code: 993-936-696
      SA - Sexaholics Anonymous (www.SA.org)
12-Step Group for both men and women who have a sexual addiction. Age 18+ only. Also offers phone groups, conferences, and workshops. Not for loved ones (see S-Anon for loved ones information).
      Search on their website for local meeting information.
      SAA - Sex Addicts Anonymous (www.SAA-recovery.org)
12-Step Group for men and women who have a sexual addiction. Not for loved ones.
      Search online for local meeting information.
      S-Anon (www.SAnon.org)
The S-Anon Family Groups are a fellowship of the relatives and friends of sexually addicted people who share their experience, strength and hope in order to solve their common problems. Our program of recovery is adapted from Alcoholics Anonymous and is based on the Twelve Steps and the Twelve Traditions. It is free and non-denominational.
      Search online for local meeting information.
      Lifestar (www.lifestarnetwork.com)
Offers an intensive outpatient group therapy using a three phase treatment program for addicts, loved ones, and teens. San Diego office contact information: John J. Boyle (MA, MFT) & Rebecca Jorgensen (PhD) (714) 869-4682
      Addo Recovery (addorecovery.com)
Offers online counseling via video conferencing as well as group 12 step meetings with counselors specialized in pornography addiction and betrayal trauma. Offers a free 6 class program for loved ones of pornography addicts, as well as paid services for individual counseling for both addicts and loved ones, group counseling, and couples counseling.
      Addiction Hope and Recovery (addictionhopeandrecovery.com)
Offers paid online counseling via video conferencing for men, women, and teens from qualified addiction therapists.
      LDS Family Services


Provides short-term counseling. Contact your bishop or local office for more information.

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